The type of guidance that should be given to a particular individual
with FAS/FAE depends on the severity of his or her disability, as well as on
his or her age and general level of functioning
It would not be appropriate to tell all individuals with FAS/FAE
that they should never talk to the police. In some situations they need,
and should ask for, assistance from the police. On the other hand, in
situations in which they may be suspected of a crime, individuals with
FAS/FAE should not talk with the police other than to give their names,
but instead should calmly request that the police reach the appropriate
family member, advocate, or other contact person.
Some individuals with FAS/FAE may not be able to understand the
distinction between these two types of situations, or may be unable in
practice to evaluate why a police officer is talking to them. If a
particular individual is able to understand and act on this distinction,
an effort should be made to explain it.
For individuals who cannot draw such a distinction, the parent or
other advocate may have to decide whether on balance that particular
individual should be advised simply not to talk to the police. That
judgment should turn in part on whether, given the individual and local
police practice, encounters with the police are more likely to be
investigatory or friendly.
It is also important that individuals with FAS/FAE understand that
the decision not to respond to police questioning has nothing to do with
whether or not they are guilty, or whether or not they need to explain
what they have been doing. It is simply to delay the police questioning
until a family member or lawyer can be there with them when they are
questioned.