Guest Blogger: Arden Clise, Clise Etiquette
I thought I’d offer a tip related to one of the questions. The question was, “how do I bring up business topics over a meal without sounding pushy?”
There is a flow to business meal conversation. When you sit down at the table, start by having casual, non-business related talk. Avoid talking about anything personal or controversial such as politics, your diet, your health or religion. Instead, find out what your guests are interested in. When you ask good questions and show a true interest in others you will be seen as a great conversationalist.
If you were to host a business meal meeting this week, an obvious topic of conversation would be the Super Bowl game. Whether you’re a football fan or not there are many areas you could take the conversation – the game itself, the commercials, how empty the shelves were at the supermarket when you went grocery shopping, the halftime show, American’s love of football. You get the idea. Once you have placed the order you may move into talking about business.
A side note here; when conducting business over a meal, it’s important to order something that is easy to eat and not messy. The focus should be on the conversation, not the food. Also, take small bites so that you can chew quickly and continue talking.
Once coffee and/or dessert are served, assuming your guest wants coffee or dessert, move the conversation back to small talk if you are finished talking business. You want to end the meal on a light note.
If you practice this conversation flow you will not have to worry about coming across pushy and you’ll have more success with the business at hand. I hope this helps you feel more comfortable and better able to enjoy the meeting.
Arden Clise, President of Clise Etiquette, is a business etiquette consultant, radio show host and columnist for the Puget Sound Business Journal. As a speaker and corporate trainer, Arden is an expert in the field of business etiquette. She can be reached at 206-708-1670 or firstname.lastname@example.org. If you would like to get etiquette tips please “Like” the Clise Etiquette Facebook page.