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Dear Queer is an anonymous advice blog here to help those who have questions – mostly in regard to queerness, social identities, resources, etc. – they need answered who may not feel comfortable addressing it in a physical encounter space.
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When Gender Changes

Fri, 15 Jan 2016 07:01:36

Throughout my childhood I identified as a cis-female who liked “boy” and “girl” things. Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about my gender identity and it’s hard for me to pin point who I feel like I am. I lean towards genderfluid because some days I’m more fe...


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Navigating Depression, Gender, and Sexuality

Thu, 14 Jan 2016 07:01:32

Hi! I’m an afab who was raised a straight female, and recently I’ve realized that I don’t fully identify with either. I’ve been suffering from depression since my mid teens, (I’m twenty now) and I think my headspace being the way it is has kept me from really feeling human, if tha...


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Should I Come Out to a Partner?

Wed, 13 Jan 2016 07:01:22

I’m a cis girl. I recently started dating a cis boy. Do I have an obligation to tell him I’m attracted to women as well as men? I don’t want to lie to him, but I don’t want to hide my sexuality either. I don’t want to be closeted, but I don’t want it to look like I can&rsquo...


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Where Can I Hang?

Tue, 12 Jan 2016 07:01:44

I’m a cis gay male here at UW and I’m in my third year as an engineering student. I am part of a traditional fraternity and have made quite a few good friends through that. However, recently I have been wanting to get more involved with the gay community. My boyfriend has managed to get very involv...


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