At the Health Care Provider’s Office:
uIf you don’t plan to follow his/her advice or directions, say so--and ask for other advice that is easier to follow.
uDon’t hesitate to talk about costs
*If you don't plan to follow his or her advice or directions, say so--and ask for other advice that's easier to follow.

*Don't hesitate to talk about costs.  Some procedure may not be covered by your insurance or Medicaid.