Discipline is a set of rules that govern a person's behavior and conduct. As an adult you have internalized these rules. For example, that's why you get up, fix your kids breakfast, and go to work when you would rather stay in bed. For your children to grow up to be successful adults, they need to internalize rules as well.
Effective Discipline:
- Teaches your children what to do, not just what not to do
- Teaches your children how to problem-solve to get their needs met
- Teaches your children how to interact appropriately with adults and others
- Promotes growth in the five areas of development (physical, intellectual, social, emotional and moral)
- Enhances self concept
- Helps your children internalize all of the above and allows them to become self disciplined