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How to say "no" in Italian |
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by Megan Brewster / 07.04.2004 |
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Communication or People. Sometimes Emergencies.
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“No” is the same in Italian as it is in English. However, it may mean something entirely different when said to an Italian male by an American female—“no” may suddenly mean “maybe” or even “yes.” Italian men are gutsy, insatiable, and relentless. Thus, dedicated practice of repetition is necessary in order to convey the true meaning of “no.” Body language and eye contact will help expedite the unveiling of no. Let’s practice together:
Scenario 1: (Anytime of day) An Italian man is trying to sell you one of his crummy bracelets for an inflated price. Look him directly in the eyes and stand directly in front of him. Enunciate an audible “no” with emphasis on an open mouth. As he persists, repeat again (even if this means interrupting his well-practiced speech) your practiced “no.” After a third repetition, turn and walk away. Looking back over your shoulder with a smile to show him that no harm was done is acceptable, as this man is more interesting in making money than following you home.
Scenario 2: (Nighttime) An Italian man is catcalling you from his seat in one of the crowded piazzas. Begin by not looking in his direction, not even for a glance at what you think you may be missing. If either he follows you to get your attention or you fail to not look his way, then you will need to pull out all stops and begin the following battle plan: begin by the simple “no” thrown over the shoulder as you continue to walk away. If he persists, as many will, try this same tactic again. If he still follows you and you have no way to quickly dart into a crowded space and loose him, then turn to face him (as in Scenario 1) and give him a loud, forceful “no.” Turn quickly and walk away. Hopefully this works (if it doesn’t, you will need to consult a more serious text as this situation is beyond the scope of this phrase book entry).
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