Case DiscussionAdvance Care Planning: Case 1 Discussion The daughters should consider her previously stated wishes as well as her current best interests. The daughters don't know how to proceed because they did not have the advance care planning conversation that clarified what their mother meant when she said that she wouldn't want to live with dementia. Was it the cognitive problems, the problems with self care, living in an institution, or the sense that living with dementia would not bring any joy? Without knowing this, the daughters are unprepared to step into her mother’s shoes. However, asking the daughters to describe their mother and what brought her enjoyment and meaning throughout her life might help clarify the meaning of her words. Without really knowing their mother's wishes or feeling comfortable about what she would want as a goal of care under the present circumstances, the decision about dialysis is difficult. The daughters may choose to approve dialysis with the proviso that future triggers could lead to its discontinuation. For example, if her current quality of life deteriorates to the point where she is no longer experiencing joy, or if her behavior on dialysis requires early termination of the dialysis sessions, it may be appropriate to discontinue dialysis at that time.