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Test Your Knowledge!
Choose a response to each situation below using discipline instead of punishment. Click the letter next to the response you choose.
1. Situation: Seven year old Kim leaves a mess in the kitchen.
A Send her to bed a half hour early.
B Call her into the kitchen to clean up her mess.
Right! Calling her back to clean up the mess teaches her the correct behavior (cleaning) and is related to the transgression. It enhances her feeling of being capable and responsible (part of her self-concept). It is effective discipline.
2. Situation: Eleven year old Gabriel's teacher informs you that he is not completing assignments.
A Establish a mandatory study table time on school nights.
B Take away his allowance for a month.
3. Situation: Four year old Victor calls you unpleasant names when you tell him "No more cookies until after dinner."
A Call him the same names and send him to the corner for 30 minutes.
B | State "No name calling" and initiate a four minute maximum time out. When the time out is over offer acceptable words, such as "I'm mad." |
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Situation: Sixteen year old Shantelle does mild property damage in a fit of anger.
A Mutually review restitution options when all parties are calmer, and decide together on the appropriate restitution.
B Immediately yell "You lose your clothing allowance for that!"