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Test Your Knowledge!
Choose a response to each situation below using discipline instead of punishment. Click the letter next to the response you choose.
1. Situation: Seven year old Kim leaves a mess in the kitchen.
A Send her to bed a half hour early.
B Call her into the kitchen to clean up her mess.
2. Situation: Eleven year old Gabriel's teacher informs you that he is not completing assignments.
A Establish a mandatory study table time on school nights.
B Take away his allowance for a month.
3. Situation: Four year old Victor calls you unpleasant names when you tell him "No more cookies until after dinner."
A Call him the same names and send him to the corner for 30 minutes.
B | State "No name calling" and initiate a four minute maximum time out. When the time out is over offer acceptable words, such as "I'm mad." |
Correct! Setting limits on unacceptable language and offering acceptable alternatives teaches children how to interact appropriately with others. A timeout which does not exceed a child's age (such as four minutes for four year olds) is an appropriate consequence. This option meets the effective discipline guidelines.
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Situation: Sixteen year old Shantelle does mild property damage in a fit of anger.
A Mutually review restitution options when all parties are calmer, and decide together on the appropriate restitution.
B Immediately yell "You lose your clothing allowance for that!"