‘Matter of Fact’: A Poem by Dr. Ron Louie

January 17, 2018

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In the current issue of Neurology, in the section Reflections: Neurobiology and the Humanities, you'll find a poem written by Ron Louie, MD, UW Fellow '87, clinical professor of pediatrics at UW Medicine. 'Matter of Fact' is about the complex experience of witnessing a life-changing diagnosis of neurological disease and the "beauty of humane consciousness".

As published in in Neurology® 2018;90:139. doi:10.1212/WNL.0000000000004841

                                               

Her face was matter of fact when she heard the pronouncement.

The neuropsychologist was her colleague; he remained professional,

but slipped in some sympathy with the data, which I could not appreciate.

 

She didn't display a mask of depression, or Parkinson disease.

Her face remained pliable, not pleased, but neither terribly pained,

no exhibition of perplexity, or petulance, or surprise, a pensive look,

retaining its complex grace, a quiet reserve, a solemn alertness,

the beauty of humane consciousness, with no further expectations.

 

In her own practice, she had encountered early Alzheimer disease first-hand:

that wonderful younger woman, whose baby she had delivered,

working in accounting until the numbers became exotic, then alien;

she had told me about that patient, with shock, sadness, and resignation.

 

But I didn't understand this. I wouldn't. It was the guy, his tests, the setting.

At home, I made her try to draw a clock, count backward, recite words, and

copy intersecting rectangles. She tried, this good doctor who had always

bested me in calculus, organic chemistry, and marriage. She wasn't angry.

 

So how could I be mad? She was setting the example, as she had done

her whole life, her whole career, without pessimism or regret, or fanfare,

just ready to go on, even though her words and steps might mutate,

unpredictably, ever aware of the possible endpoints, with each of us

now grappling this present moment, trying to recognize its identity.

                                                    

 

Read the poem: PDF of poem

Listen to the audio, read by the author.

 

About the author: Ronald Louie, MD, recently retired from Mary Bridge Children’s in Tacoma. He is also a clinical professor of pediatrics at UW Medicine. He is a spousal caregiver to his wife, who has early onset Alzheimer’s dementia.